Television personality, Deloris Frimpong Manso has asked men to prove women they need wrong in order to have them.
In a long post describing some attributes of a strong and independent woman men need in their lives, Delay mentioned that such women have gone through various hurdles in life and will take a lot of work to get them.
She said, “Men, you say you want a strong, intelligent, truly independent woman who wants you rather than needs you, who inspires you, who pushes you towards being yourself, who can stick by you through the hardest times, and who can be your rock through life’s obstacles.
But you need to know that a truly strong, independent woman does not walk through life with her heart wide open. She has had to put up walls to block toxicity to obtain her strength.
She is skeptical and always on alert from a lifetime of defense against predators. She is going to be a bit jaded, a little cynical, and a little scary because those qualities come with the struggle of obtaining that strength that gravitates you. She is going to doubt and question you’re good intentions because it has become her adaptability instincts that have allowed her to thrive.
She is not a ball of sunshine. She has flaws. She has a past. She has her demons. She knows better than to just let down her barriers for you simply because you voice a desire to enter. You have to prove your right of the entrance. She will assume the worst of you because the worst has happened. If you want her to see otherwise, prove her wrong!!!”.